Why Indonesia [probably] will fail in Implementing “Paid Plastic Bag” Policy? : A Casual Economics Review


Caution: It will be a long article, so I draw some illustration. However, still boring but mmm maybe not in a deathly level 🙂

Happy Earth Day, Planet Earth!
Earth Day special, I want to look like a real “Green-Economist” and based on some requests I will write about Paid-Plastic Bag Policy in Indonesia. I don’t want to stress you with crazy creepy economics terms, so I tried my best to make it as casual as possible.Ah! And sorry, in English… while I want to do “more” with the Indonesian version.

Well, here the news! Based on a paper written by Jambeck, et al (2015) [1], Indonesia became the second biggest plastic waste contributors in the ocean, just below China which was in the first place. Is it serious problem? Definitely, yes! Indonesia already experienced a huge drop in fish harvesting because of unsustainable fish-catching (e.g. using bomb, poison, etc), climate change, and now: waste, to be precise plastic waste. The details summarized in the graph below:

Every book, including history books, noted that environmental problem usually happened in lower-middle income countries which try to transform their economic structure. But who want to be trapped in the same trap? Indonesia also learns from the past.  We love popularity but not as plastic waste contributor in this blue planet! Then, started from February 2016, Indonesia tries to implement “paid plastic bag” policy in 22 cities. Such an out-of-dated policy for some countries, but it is very new in my lovely country. How the policy works? In brief, you should pay 200 IDR (around 2 JPY or 0,02 USD) / plastic bag every time you do shopping in any modern retail stores. 

Then what happened all around Indonesia? Lots of people reject this policy. Of course if I am a policy maker, I will realize that my policy will gain some critiques and that’s not my business to please everyone. My jobs are increase people wealth and create environment sustainability. Haters always gonna be haters, but haters sometimes give their most objective critics, so let’s analyze their critics points.

After 2 months, there is no significant reduction of plastic waste in Indonesia. Probably, it is even more plastic waste than anybody can predict!

I remember, once in television, my favorite writer Arswendo Atmowiloto said “Indonesia people made their own economics theories.” As economist I will give standing applause for this quote. Leave your economics textbook, because it is beyond our imagination.

To counter this point I just can say: This is too early to judge that this policy totally failed. Still 2 months! What you can do in 2 months? Like a baby, they just already started to see his parent clearly. In business terms it still “test the water” part.

But, can that point come true? unfortunately, I should say  “Yes”.

I have several reasons:

First, we haven’s accustomed yet. No further explanation needed.

Second, There are no efforts from the shops to reduce the use of plastic bag. If today you go to any random retail store or supermarket in Indonesia and buy something there. Maybe you will find the cashier simply totaling your groceries plus your plastic bag even if you only buy a can of cola. “Oh, but I don’t want to use plastic bag” upss… sorry, but it’s already counted.

Third, Indonesian never really interested in collecting small change. Huh? Is it related to the topic? I will give you long explanation for this one.

In Japan, I really hate 1 yen and 5 yen in my pocket. But the good news is at least here I can make ATM machine busy enough to count and save my coins. Also all groceries are in prices which need 1 yen and 5 yen nominal.
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In Indonesia? Nope! We even face difficulties to save our coins to the bank. Indonesia’s smallest nominal is 100 IDR. When I was kid I still can buy a candy with 100 IDR or using payphone, but today there are almost none with that nominal. So, if you have lots of 100 IDR coins, maybe you can keep it in your piggy bank, but it is also bring another problem. Once, my friend tried to bring her coins saving to the bank, she already counted that and she had around 500.000 IDR (around 50 USD or 5000 JPY) and this value is consisted by 5000 shinny 100 IDR coins!!! yes! around 5000 coins, maybe more.
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Money is money, she confident that Bank will be kind enough to accept her coins. She came to the Bank and TADAAAAA…Bank rejected it. With a sad face she just asked me “What should I do with this? Make it for weight-lifting?” Trust me, that’s a true story. If you don’t trust me you can read another story here [Indonesian only]

This physiological tendency  then used by some supermarket and convenient store to ask “Do you want to make donation with your small changes? “ and with a lazy tone, almost all of us just simply said “Ok” without even ask where that exchange will go (another reason why recently there are high report about “small corruption” by the cashier).

Thanks to “paid-plastic bag” policy, trend will be slightly changed then!
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If, for example, the exchange is 400 IDR, then an Indonesian see there are many things she already bought, of course it is rational decision for her to pay for 2 plastic bags than should donate it somewhere she never know. Even if she just needs one plastic bag, she still chooses to buy 2 plastic bags, one for her stuff, another one? Well… she will need it (although in fact no one ever re-use it, who need lots of plastic bag?). Even! If she don’t need plastic bag at all but then she heard the exchange will be, for example, 200 IDR! She probably say “Mmm…Oh okay, with one plastic bag please!” and she will feel she made a genius deal! How stingy Indonesian! Oh, no… that’s the most rational economic decision everyone probably take. In behavioral economics there is a statement that we, human, prefer something that gives exact utility for ourselves in the near future. We looking a way to fulfill our needs first before other people’s needs, even that’s a silly thing called plastic bag.

If this thing always happened then plastic industry will be so happy, yes! Why? 1. While there is no clear explanation where the money goes, let’s assuming it goes back to plastic bag producer, probably it can cover their production cost.  2. While demand of plastic bag are not changing (or even accidentally increased!) and there are no specific requirement from the government about plastic bag price, then voila! It is a great business for plastic company (sst… don’t say it to plastic company, please). I want to look cool here, let me draw you a curve to explain it.
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Using the curve above, assuming accidentally plastic bag demand increases (say because the price is very affordable and the increase of income of Indonesian) .Economy start in EQUILIBRIUM state and  give us price of plastic bag in in Peq and quantity sold in Qeq. If the demand INCREASE (D shifted to the right become D’) then Qeq become Q’. If government kept the price of plastic bag still in Peq,  capturing the opportunities in the market, plastic company will INCREASE supply  of plastic bag (S shifted to the right become S’).

In the other words, plastic company will produce more plastic bag to fulfill market’s need. It is also means an increase in plastic waste. It is undeniable. Of course maybe it is “too extreme” case. However, I want to show that as long as the price is below or same with equilibrium price, plastic bag still promising product for the plastic company.

So, what should we do if we want to decrease the quantity of plastic sold by the market?
Again, economist should draw a lot of curves!
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Assume we want to decrease Quantity sold until Q”, in economics one variable that can be modified is Price! Let’s make government firm enough to regulate the Price on P” which is above Peq. Supply curve always sticky enough to be changed (I mean we can’t force the company to reduce their benefit? Remember, in classical theory, company never care anything except maximizing their profit). But we, consumer… we sensitive with price :D. Consumer will think twice to buy that plastic bag, why should we waste money for such low quality plastic? Ewww…Go away plastic, our wallet really hate you! Right after that  comes into consumer mind, demand will decrease until D”. Plastic bag also will not profitable enough for the company and for sure they will decrease their production. What a news! we save the planet then!

Enough with curve,  still some points to explain.

Forth, “Monthly shopping” culture. If you go to Indonesia… you probably will see that people will buy huge amount of groceries! In our culture (based on my experience as 100% Indonesian!) we buy something for monthly needs. Here in Tokyo, I found that people buy groceries for weekly or daily so one small or medium size shopping bag will be enough.  I can show you how small Japan’s shopping bag is:

This is my shopping bag, I compare the size with B5 size book. Very compact (and fashionable). People can buy the bigger one than this, however the size is not really different with this one.

in Indonesia? Using shopping bag? Haha…No way!
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Once a high-middle income families go to supermarket they will buy everything! One sack of rice, 5 boxes of noodles, soap, cooking oil, sandals, clothes, pencil, hairdryer, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, everything! How many shopping bags do we need then? Even me, researcher on climate change field and also an economist, I will pay for plastic bag for this. While the plastic bags also cheap! Only 200 IDR… and based in the news I conclude that this price is below equilibrium price. Then we face excess demand of plastic!

“Hei! But who can beat custom and even culture?.” This one is a difficult part.
But I remember, I am such a bookworm, and can’t help with it. Every time I go to the bookstore, I can empty my wallet and buy a mountain of books, some of them are very thick. Then I realize one thing… here in Japan, no matter how heavy my books are, they will provide me with paper bags. At first I am really worry about it, and the only English sentence written there was “This bag made by recycled paper”. I thought it will be broken just 3 steps after I left the book store. However, I went around Tokyo bringing that paper bag with full books inside and it kept my books safe until home. I don’t know exactly about total production cost of “strong” recycled paper bag is, but if it is cheap enough I hope Indonesia can try to that’s one.

Fifth, No garbage separation policy in Indonesia. In Indonesia, you can throw any garbage anytime (and anywhere). Some places already try to separate garbage into organic and non-organic, however that’s “useless” because there are no separated garbage truck between organic and non-organic garbage. So, why Indonesian should separate it if then it will mix again on the truck? Why? Tell me…WHY!?

Hey! But why is it related to the number of plastic waste? Before answer that, let me tell you my story.

I am living in a town where there is no policy about paid-plastic bag. So, every time I buy my groceries (while I am Indonesian, I love to buy something for at least for two weeks ahead :p),  I get lots of plastic bag. But only in a week, there are no plastic bag left in my home.

Why? Because here, I am struggling to separate waste!  On “Recyclable garbage” day I should separated them into 8 type of garbage: Newspaper, leaflet/books/magazine, cans, pet bottles, card boxes, milk/ beverages boxes, food tray, and glasses jar. Assume there is a day I have all of these Recycled garbage types, then I need 8 plastic bags to separate them!

This is example from Meguro-ku (I took it from internet), in my place (Oota-ku) Recyclable waste should be separated into 8 types 🙂 different town, different policy but overall you should do lots of efforts for this. (photo credit: https://travelfoodguru.wordpress.com)

In another day, there will also “burnable garbage day” and “Non-burnable garbage” day… of course I need another plastic bag to separate them carefully. Bye plastic bag…
I can assure you that my home is free from any form of plastic waste.
I also can’t randomly throw my garbage without following the rule; the truck will never take your garbage if the garbage is not fit with the schedule. Such a hassle, but we happy because no garbage everywhere and ministry of environment  also happy while it is easier for them to process all garbage.
I think plastic consumption in Tokyo is higher than any other place in Japan, but the waste management is very good also so it is not such a big burden for Japan.

Back to Indonesia… as I told you before, we love buying something in huge amount for monthly stock, then we get lots of plastic bags and have no idea what we can do with them after that. Some people keep it and assume they will need it later; some people just throw it away. But in another month we do the same thing again… again… and again…

The story will different if Indonesia has a good waste management system. I think it is too early (and too crazy) to follow Japan waste separation system (they start to apply this system from Meiji period actually). Maybe try to separate organic and non-organic waste will be a good start. In that time, at least Indonesia can recycle the garbage better! Not only pile everything on the landfills!

To be honest! I think the main reason why there are lots of plastic waste in Indonesia is not only because we use so many plastics in our daily life, but also because government still have no idea what should they do with all of the waste!

Personally (really… this is personal thought), without any disrespect to Indonesian government efforts in reducing plastic waste, applying paid plastic bag policy before applying good waste management system is like learn how to make an airplane before learn basic physics. Or if you are an economist, it is like learn applied econometric before learn math. I mean, it is possible to work but will take time… so much time! It is possible, but somehow not efficient.

Well, that’s it…
I hope I give a friendly explanation about everything and give you some idea how to criticize this topic smartly 🙂

Good luck, Indonesia.
Good luck, all Indonesian.
let’s make Jambeck et al  revise their research result soon 🙂

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[1] Jenna R. Jambeck, Roland Geyer, Chris Wilcox, Theodore R. Siegler, Miriam Perryman, Anthony Andrady, Ramani Narayan,  Kara Lavender Law, Science  13 Feb 2015: Vol. 347, Issue 6223, pp. 768-771.

And I am getting older [again]… : my birthday note


As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do.” —Andrew Carnegie

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Oh look, I think my hair will turns into grey :’D I am getting older today.
Please deliver me your “happy birthday” hahahaha.
Many things happens… you know what? everything can be happen as fast as you winking.
I decide to turn off my birthday notification on facebook, to go away somewhere alone, to contemplate what happened to me so far and what should I do then.
While maybe I am too old for such “birthday celebration”… it is always awesome when someone remember my birthday, always. It is not easy to remember someone birthday :’P I am the one who really bad on it.
But this year, especially this March…. lots of things happened, and in the future so many things will happen…. all things in my mind now is I want to think about everything carefully, reviewing what’s wrong, grateful for everything, enjoying my own “me-time”

More quarter century+1 year living in this favorite planet, I pray for so many things:
For happiness for my family, my friends, my cats, everyone
For many reasons to smile
For a kind heart who understand people’s pain
For an open heart to help others without thinking
For a nice foods on my table everyday and while I believe Allah is very rich, I am asking for a better distribution of foods to all people around. I am just an ordinary girl, I can’t think too complicated. No matter how stupid political constellation outside, I hope rich will never throw their foods and the poor scavenge the garbage to find some foods. Oh that’s too mean 🙁
I pray for a good health of every parents, so they can see their kids grow… and hopefully very lucky until they can see their grandchild.
I pray for everything good around…

And finally I pray for my self again…. : To be a wiser person.

26 years passed… I don’t know how many years ahead. But I believe there are lots of great things, people, and adventure I will face.

Hei…. I think I am ready for everything.
Insha Allah….
🙂

Death ends a life, Not a relationship: ketika keluarga kami kembali kehilangan


“As long as we can love each other and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here. Death ends a life…. Not a relationship —-(Tuesdays with MorrieMitch Albom)

Jumat, 25 Maret 2016 sebuah berita duka kembali menerpa keluarga saya. Uwak saya meninggal dunia. Semuanya serba mendadak… saya hampir menyangka saya berhalusinasi karena sejak semalaman saya tidak bisa tidur dan sibuk mengolah data penelitian saya.Sambil membuka handphone saya berkali-kali pagi itu, saya nyaris mengetik “Ma, ini Mas Adi yang mana? tetangga kita yang lain?. Ih mama salah ketik deh”
Beberapa jam sebelum saya menyerahkan revisi data saya kepada sensei saya, saya harus menerima kenyataan bahwa benar Uwak saya tersebut sudah kembali ke sisi Sangpencipta.

Siapa yang tidak terkejut? yang saya ketahui Beliau orang yang menjaga kesehatannya dengan baik, orang yang selalu bersemangat menghadapi hari. Saya masih ingat bagaimana Beliau mengendarai mobil, memencet klakson ketika kami keluarganya yang memang mayoritas wanita ini “lelet” dan tidak kunjung beres dengan urusan kami sendiri, saya juga masih ingat karena setiap Beliau berkunjung ke rumah… Beliau pasti menjadi garda terdepan yang heboh menanyai kondisi saya dan adik saya… yang paling semangat melakukan video call ketika saya melanjutkan studi saya di Jepang (and also I still remember betapa paniknya saya ketika Beliau menelpon dan saya si mahasiswa malas ini belum mandi dan totally in a mess ketika Beliau menelpon :’P).

Saya ingat… dan tidak akan pernah lupa bahwa bagi saya dan adik saya, Beliau mungkin adalah “Ayah kedua” bagi kami setelah ayah kami meninggal dunia.

Maka sungguh ini merupakan sebuah kehilangan yang besar bagi keluarga kami…. bagi saya… bagi adik saya…. mama saya, dan tentu kehilangan maha besar bagi keluarga inti uwak saya.

Sebagai orang yang diam-diam begitu saya segani dan hormati (dan lagi-lagi saya anggap sebagai ayah kedua bagi saya dan adik saya), sometimes of course we have different opinion, but more than that saya beruntung karena dalam hidup saya saya pernah bertemu Beliau, he was one of the best man in this blue planet. Dari Beliau saya belajar untuk membantu orang lain tanpa pamrih.

Tentu saya sedih, lagi-lagi dalam hidup saya saya kehilangan seorang pria yang akan saya kabari pertama kali ketika nanti saya wisuda…
Lagi-lagi dalam hidup saya, saya kehilangan seorang pria yang saya harap akan hadir menggantikan ayah saya dalam akad nikah saya kelak.
Saya kehilangan seorang pria yang jika Beliau masih ada mungkin beberapa bulan/ tahun kedepan, Beliau akan super repot melakukan “investigasi”, “wawancara”, serta “fit and proper test” untuk calon-calon menantunya (dan mungkin melakukan hal yang sama kepada calon suami saya kelak). Oh hey you guys, if you fall in love to  my cousins… they had a great dad, you must be a high-quality man to get them 🙂 seriously.
Kami… saya dan sepupu saya kehilangan pria yang seharusnya kelak menjadi saksi pernikahan kami.
Adik saya… mungkin dia lebih “kehilangan”dibandingkan saya… he never meet his father since very young, dan Uwak Adi menjadi sosok “ayah” yang dia kenal. Mereka kadang hilang entah kemana berdua… having their great “bro time.” Mungkin dia juga merasa sepi karena kini tinggal dia pria yang tersisa dari garis keturunan Mama saya. Hey, Bro… ahahahhaa you have queens and princess to take care off 🙂 be a nice man then.

Ah sudahlah….Saya tidak akan banyak menulis hal yang menguras air mata… saya percaya siapapun tidak ingin menguras air mata orang-orang yang dicintainya ketika mereka pergi. Life must goes on, so do a nice smile….
Beliau mungkin sudah bertemu dengan ayah saya dan kakek saya disana… bersama mereka bercengkrama dan mungkin sambil menikmati masakan nenek saya yang saking enaknya mungkin Beliau juga sudah buka catering di alam sana. Ah siapa tahu kan? yang pasti orang yang baik tentu akan berada di tempat yang baik juga bukan.

Di sebuah pojok planet ini, saya berjanji kepada semua orang yang telah berjasa kepada saya, baik yang masih ada di dunia ini maupun yang sudah meninggalkan saya…
I”ll do my best… for everything.

dan satu lagi yang mungkin harus kita ingat selalu “Death ends a life…. Not a relationship
Oh yes, never 🙂

Karena kita menggali ilmu untuk mendewasakan pemikiran kita: Membongkar salah kaprah dalam melanjutkan studi


Jadi kalian kuliah itu ingin apa? -Saya-

Setiap menuju akhir pekan, saya mengecek blog saya… dan saya tertarik dengan search terms yang banyak muncul di blog saya… eng ing eng take a look!
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“IPB bubar”
“apa IPB bagus”
dsb….

Cieeee… pada nyari tentang IPB ya? Baiklah akan saya paparkan apa yang menjadi rasa penasaran kalian. Saya, walau alumni… tapi saya akan paparkan segalanya dengan seobjektif mungkin.

Masuk IPB susah? Gak kok, tinggal naik angkot 05 jurusan Dramaga bilang turun di IPB, terus masuk deh. Oh seriously, Marissa.
Yaaa layiknya masuk ke PTN ya, susah-susah gampang. Saingan kalian manusia-manusia pintar dan juga manusia-manusia dengan tekad baja. Pintar aja gak cukup harus banyak puasa sunnah dan tahajud :p

Kuliah di IPB susah? Jujur susah… susah buaaaaaangggeeeet…. kampret sekampret-kampretnya. IPB itu tega! Kalau kalian ngulang, bakal ada tanda bintang di transkrip yang mengindikasikan kalian ngulang. Jangan tanya kuliahnya… beuuuh, selalu ada mata kuliah killer di setiap fakultas. Karena saya anak yang biasa-biasa aja, yaaaah kenalan lah sama rantai karbon C, awalnya shock lama-lama sujud syukur karena Alhamdulillah lolos. Tapi yang dapat IPK 4.00 juga buaaaanyaaaak… jadi apakah kuliah dan dapat nilai bagus di IPB susah? tergantung kalian sendiri sih.

Apakah alumni IPB mudah mendapatkan pekerjaan yang layak? So far yang karirnya lebih bright dibanding saya buanyaaak banget. Kementerian, bank, jurnalistik, bisnis, semuanya ada….! complete!

Hal yang kayak begini sebenarnya bukan sesuatu yang perlu disearch di google, tapi ditelisik ke dalam diri sendiri, diajukan dalam setiap doa ke Tuhan. Yaaaah guys! Blog emonikova ini apa coba? yang ada saya malah mau ngomel-ngomel, nah nyesel kan…

Memangnya kenapa kalau kuliah itu susah?
Memangnya kenapa kalau jurusan yang kalian minati itu “Aneh” dan kayaknya kurang “hits”?
Kenapa? kalian mau mundur? Oh mundurlah karena dunia tidak butuh manusia cemen dan lembek.
Hei! Mana ada pelaut yang handal karena berlayar di sungai air tawar? Itu sih ternak ikan di karamba…. Pelaut handal itu handal karena mereka berani berlayar melawan ombak seganas apapun itu! Majuuuu! Serbuuuuu! Seraaaang! Terjaaaaang!

Jujur sebenarnya saya diterima di beberapa PTN di Indonesia, namun saya memilih IPB kemudian. Jangan pikir saya tidak tertekanya awalnya ketika saya masuk IPB…. ada banyak komentar miring
Ih… kok yang dipilih IPB sih, itu kan buangan aja buat anak SMAtop1 (menyamarkan nama sebuah SMA hits di Bogor)”
Ih kok yang dipilih IPB sih, kan susah dapet kerja sama beasiswa” Dan saya ingat betul yang mencetuskan ini adalah guru saya sendiri di SMP.
Kalau gw sih ya, Mon… gak ada hasrat sama sekali dengan tuh dengan IPB
dan ratusan hal lainnya…
Iya sih, saya kan biasa-biasa aja ya, garis rakyat jelata di SMA, mungkin jika saya masuk Oxford pun standar Oxford akan turun karena “Ih emon aja bisa masuk.” Waduh! kalau begini saya harus sungkem ke kampus….
But I study abroad now, nothing is wrong with my university, my teacher, everything! Everything are fine.

Kampus saya mungkin tidak perfect,
Nilai saya di kampus juga aduuuh gak usah tanya deh… :’D standar
Saya tertawa, menangis, jungkir balik, gila, bahagia, dan merasakan aneka perasaan nano-nano lainnya.

Namun, saya akan tulis hal penting ini denga ukuran jumbo dan bold:

Kesuksesan kalian adalah hasil tekad dan kerja keras kalian sendiri!

stop blaming the university,  the teachers, the subjects, your parents, your friends, your God. Satu-satunya orang yang perlu kalian marahi adalah orang yang wajahnya muncul di kaca ketika kalian bercermin. Oh yes! you.. just yourself.

Apa kalian akan lebih keren dibandingkan teman-teman kalian yang kuliah di univ.X ketika kalian diterima kuliah di univ. Y?
Apa kalian akan lebih jenius dengan kuliah di univ Y dibandingkan X?
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Lupakan semua pemikiran mahadangkal dan bodoh itu. Jangan merendahkan diri kalian sendiri dengan menganggap kalian lebih hina ketika terdampar di suatu universitas bukan di universitas lain yang lebih “wah”. Jangan pula terlalu angkuh ketika kalian diterima di univ.impian yang luar biasa berat dan top and think that nobody in this universe can beat you! Think that you are the best and the smartest people in this blue planet. Bukan berarti saya menyuruh kalian untuk leyeh-leyeh gak berjuang ke univ unggulan, aduuuuh gak lah… kalian malah harus berjuang gila-gilaan untuk itu.

Oh please… please… please…
Jangan merendahkan harkat “pendidikan” dengan perspektif yang sempit….

Dalam Islam saja, sampai ada hadist (aduh masa’ harus gw yang ingetin):
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:  “The seeking of knowledge is obligatory for every Muslim.” – Hadist Al-Tirmidhi

Kenapa sih, kenapa mencari ilmu itu wajib? Kerena pengetahuan yang akan membijaksanakan kalian… membuat pola perilaku kalian tidak “kosong”

Ketika saya kuliah di IPB misalnya, lebih dari sekadar nilai… saya bertemu dengan orang-orang dari berbagai daerah di Indonesia, dengan berbagai latar belakang sosial, ekonomi, dan kultur. Setiap orang kemudian punya cerita mereka masing-masing,punya masalah dan kompleksitas hidup mereka masing-masing. Sebagai jembatan dari masa labil ala anak SMA menjadi dewasa, level S1 lebih menjadi sebuah media yang mengajarkan bagaimana kita harus bersikap menghadapi orang dengan latar yang berbeda-beda tersebut.

Saya juga belajar mata kuliah yang lebih kompleks dibandingkan ketika SMA, menghadapi dosen dengan aneka karakter dan aneka rupa cara mengajar yang tentu lebih beragam daripada ketika SMA. Nah, disitu kita berlatih untuk mencerna berbagai informasi dari beragam cara penyampaian.

Bahkan ketika nanti kalian lanjut ke jenjang yang lebih tinggi (S2/S3 misalnya), kita bisa nangis loh liat persoalan di depan mata kita… air mata terkuras. Selfie sih dengan senyum tapi hati teriris meringis. Lalu kita sadar “Oh dalam hidup ada yang permasalahan yang kompleks buanget” lalu kalian akan belajar how to solve itu semua. Di kelas mikroekonomi misalnya, waaaah jangan tanya susahnya macam apa (pakai nihongo pula), ada equation yang puaaaaanjaaaaaang banget… dan kemudian untuk dipecahkan, rupanya equation itu harus dipecah jadi beberapa equation… lalu pecahkan satu persatu. Nilai mungkin pecah-pecah, tapi itu kemudian melatih pola pikir kalian “Wah ada hal yang rumit nih! Oh baiklah mari runut satu per satu dan pecahkan semuanya step by step.” Bukankah pendidikan semacam itu sesungguhnya lebih mendidik kita untuk jadi orang yang gak ngotot dan lebih humble?

Kita belajar sesuatu dengan lebih fokus terhadap satu permasalah. Kita dilatih untuk memilah fact and hoax dengan cara yang lebih scientific. Memilah mana yang penting untuk dianalisa lebih lanjut di sel abu-abu dan mana yang tidak.

Beberapa dari kita juga mungkin akan tinggal jauh untuk pertama kalinya dari orang tua. Kita belajar untuk bertanggung jawab, memilah mana yang baik dan mana yang buruk. Belajar bertanggung jawab dengan amanah dan doa orang tua kita yang pastinya gila-gilaan menyekolahkan kalian agar kelak kalian menjadi orang yang lebih baik.

Ketika kalian memutuskan untuk menjadi MAHAsiswa, maka camkan dalam benak kalian bahwa kalian punya tanggung jawab yang MAHAbesar.
Jika mental kalian terlalu cemen untuk mengemban tanggung jawab itu, silakan mundur…

Jika kalian punya impian, jika kalian benar-benar ingin belajar sesuatu, jika kalian ingin menjadi manusia yang lebih baik… detik ini tetapkan kalian mau masuk univ apa, jurusan apa, dan bertekadlah untuk berusaha luar biasa di bidang itu. Jika kelak kalian dapat nilai yang jelek, sedih… nangis… luapkan… tapi jangan terlalu lama, segera bangkit setelah itu! Belajar! cari dimana kesalahan kalian… jangan batasi ilmu kalian sebatas nilai di transkrip.
Jika kemudian kalian lulus, dan kemudian kalian ingin mencari pekerjaan dan membahagiakan orang tua kalian… carilah… sejauh mungkin! Kalian mungkin aka gagal ratusan kali, tapi ingat orang tua kalian tidak pernah menyerah ketika menyekolahkan kalian. Sebelum kalian menyerah, ingatlah untuk selalu mencoba lagi sebelum menyerah.

Kalian hanya perlu melakukan hal terbaik untuk hal yang benar-benar kalian suka dan kalian yakini.
It is like fall in love, no matter how hard it will be… no matter how crazy it will be… you’ll never give up on it.

And NEVER LISTEN ANY NEGATIVE THINGS AROUND!
Please juga untuk para “motivator” di kampus-kampus terutama motivator wirausaha biasanya… stop talking “Bill Gates juga dulunya drop out dari sekolah” are you stupid or what? Dia drop out dari Harvard! HARVARD!!!! bukan sekolah abal-abal! Kalian tau persaingan masuk Harvard itu macam apa? Aduuuuh…. by default otak dia sudah bright ya adek-adek sekalian. Lagian apa salahnya sih kalau kalian pintar, punya track record pendidikan yang baik, lalu punya bisnis? Oh come on don’t be stupid. Memotivasi orang tuh mbok ya yang membawa hikmah… otak pas-pasan lulus kuliah aja dapet kerja susah, apalagi kalau drop out? rezeki memang di tangan Allah tapi yaaaa kan semua juga gak cuman modal bismillah lalu life goes on dengan lancar.

Tuhan dan semesta ini sudah mendukung kita untuk melakukan hal yang baik, and the ace is on your hand now. Kalian mau sukses… mau gagal…. mau cupu… mau keren… itu semua kalian yang memutuskan.
Hei kalian, jangan menyerah ya kalau kalian merasa hal yang akan kalian lalui adalah yang terbaik untuk kalian dan untuk orang-orang sekitar kalian.
Seperti motto boneka Daruma: 七転び八起き (Nana korobi yaoki):Fall seven times, stand eight times…
Dan ah, bertanggungjawablah pada Tuhan yang sudah mengizinkan untuk mengabulkan doa kalian dan doa orang-orang terdekat kalian.

Social Media Diet: Karena kalian tidak perlu mengkomparasi kebahagiaan kalian dengan kebahagiaan orang lain :)


Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.”— Omar Khayyam

Dan seorang manusia kuper bernama Marissa akhirnya memutuskan untuk membersihkan handphone-nya. Dia memutuskan untuk DIET! bukan sembarang diet, tapi diet sosial media. Huh? Apa lagi itu?
Saya meng-uninstall beberapa social media yang menurut saya gak perlu-perlu banget dan mungkin yang terlalu additive. Bukan apa-apa, saya kan semakin uzur dan sepertinya saya semakin mudah tersulut iri dengki *haish*. No, actually, I just get bored and I want to focus with something I really passionate about and of course my research.
Saya menguninstall facebook dan Path dari HP tercinta saya. Facebook?… karena kalau saya butuh, saya bisa buka via PC. Path? I don’t know… I just have a hate-love relationship with Path. Seiring dengan rontoknya rambut saya, usia yang makin menua, tulang yang semakin sering encok, saya merasa Path dan beberapa social media lain terkadang mengubah  standar kebahagiaan saya.

Bahagia ala social media seringkali adalah:
Ketika harus check in di semua tempat baru…ah, bukan hanya check in! Jangan lupa tag juga pasangan kamu 😉 apa? kamu sendirian? ih cacian deh… :p
Ketika kamu baca buku dan harus update sudah halaman berapa yang kamu baca dengan detil, jangan lupa tulis di mana kamu baca buku itu? di sebuah cafe sophisticated? kurang lengkap tanpa skrinsut dengan caffe latte yang sudah ditata ciamik.
Ketika kamu dimarahi atasan kamu, atau sekadar unmood dengan seorang atau beberapa orang yang menjengkelkan, lalu tulis “Sabaaar, biar Tuhan yang balas” lalu semua orang memberi jempol atau seutas senyum “ih ada apa? sabar ya… cerita dong” Dan percakapan pun menjadi mahapanjang hanya untuk membicarakan orang lain. Ingat! Kamu mungkin benar, tapi ingat juga kamu mungkin salah… semesta ini sudah bekerja sesuai dengan hukum Newton sebab=akibat bahkan sebelum Newton mencetuskan teori itu.  You don’t need to complain about everything on social media! Apalagi sampai tambah dosa jadi ngomongin orang. You need someone you really trust to and talk to them…. you need your God to inspire you… Find God when you need solution, not when you want to talk bad about something or someone. Bukankah Tuhan adalah Dzat Mahasuci yang layiknya disebut dalam hal-hal yang baik dan penuh keagungan?

Oh come on stop being fake! be real!

Jadi lo hapus akun?
Gak! Akun saya ada… ada banget, gak saya hapus kok… saya bahkan masih melink-an blog saya dengan path dan facebook, but I don’t want to scroll them every single time! Perkara kalian ingin membaca blog saya atau tidak, that’s your business 🙂 dan saya selalu bahagia menyambut semua pembaca saya di blog. This is the real me… I no need to do any drama on my blog.

Namanya masih diet level 1, saya toh masih jadi silent reader di twitter (and I think it still the best buat baca-baca berita terbaru), instagram (I love photography dan sedang kerajingan pamer hasil fotografi saya, selain itu saya punya sahabat pena yang hanya bisa saya hubungi via instagram), dan pinterest (karena banyak ilmu-ilmu baru yang seru). Saya hanya meninggalkan hp saya di rumah selama saya di lab. Bye cellphone, I’ll be back… dan dia pun menunggu dengan manis di sofa.

And here I am… happy, safe, and sound!
Saya kembali menjadi Marissa yang so easy to be happy…

My real happiness :’D

Saya kembali menyentuh seluruh jurnal dan merangkum mereka satu per satu untuk tesis.
Saya kembali menyusun jurnal harian saya, mencatat semua pengetahuan baru yang saya dapat.
Saya kembali menulis planner dan buku harian saya dengan teratur. Saya bahkan membuat part yang saya tulis dengan bahasa Jepang. Saya memutuskan setelah lulus master, saya harus berhasil lulus tes JLPT setidaknya level 3! Cupuuuuuuuu cuman level 3! 2 kek.. 1 kek… apaan tuh level 3? Pffft…. Bodo amat lah, ahahahaa… yang penting senyum :’D
Saya kembali membaca buku dengan bahagia, tidak peduli buku apa yang sedang trend saat ini… seberapa cepat saya membaca… seberapa terkenal penulisnya… I don’t care, I love it then I read it.

Saya kembali menggambar dan menulis surat…  I make new friends…

I write and draw something again :’D

Ketika saya punya masalah atau sekadar ingin ketawa, saya masih bisa menghubungi sahabat-sahabat saya ketika mereka dan saya sedang luang. Dan jika kemudian mereka sedang sibuk, no prob… I have lots of things to do too. So, live couldn’t be easier then.

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Akun Instagram saya… fotonya sekarang agak slightly better setelah mendapat banyak masukan dari kakek-kakek fotografer yang suka gak sengaja ketemu di taman terus kayaknya gatel ngajarin fotografer newbietol macam saya

Saya kembali jalan kali atau naik si “Tengsin” (nama skuter saya, namanya tengsin karena kalau dipake aduuuh kayak masa kecil kurang bahagia gitu) sambil membawa kamera saya lalu menjepret semua pemandangan keren di sekitar saya. Berkenalan dengan kakek-kakek yang kameranya biasanya lebih canggih daripada saya, dengan pemahaman nihongo yang seiprit, saya terkadang kecipratan ilmu dari mereka. If you see my photography skill increase… itu semua salah satunya karena jasa mereka (makasih loh kek :’] )

Kemarin, 9 Maret 2016, gerhana matahari total dan nyepi bagi umat Hindu. Salah satu sahabat saya yang “trapped in Ubud” pun kemudian ikut “menyepi” and I am glad when she shown me her water color painting this morning :’) I mean… she really talented on it. Harus berapa nyepi dia lewati hingga dia bisa optimalize skillnya itu?

Jadi apa, Mon? Lo maksa kita-kita buat uninstall social media kayak lo juga? Cih… kalo kuper gak usah ngajak-ngajak.

Oh c’mon! Are you kidding on me? of course not! Saya justru menganjurkan kalian untuk menjadi diri kalian. If social media is something “really you are”, you love it, you enjoy it, you become better because of it… then go ahead! Lanjut gan! Namun jika ada social media yang kemudian merenggut “the real you are”, yang membuat kamu sedih ketika jomblo… ketika LDR… ketika hujan…. ketika berketombe… yaaah pokoknya kalau banyak mudharatnya yaaaa kurangi, kalau perlu tinggalkan.

Berbahagialah dengan cara yang paling membuat kalian bahagia. Jalan-jalan tanpa perlu pusing ketinggalan tongsis dan power bank (tapi harus pusing sih kalau gak bawa kamera, atau bawa kamera eh gak ada baterenya =.= wassalam).
Baca buku sambil menikmati rintik hujan dan segelas teh hangat tanpa perlu ada kewajiban lapor sudah sampai halaman berapa, chapter berapa, dsb.
Nikmati waktu dengan orang yang kalian sayang, tertawa dan berbagi cerita sedih kalian secara mendalam… nikmati setiap kisah manisnya hingga kisah bodohnya. Jika kalian merindukan seseorang, lalu yang dirindukan tidak segera membalas pesan… leave them alone for a while, mungkin dia sibuk and hei! Do something productive too. Akan tiba detik dimana rindu tidak bisa terbendung dan percayalah TRING “Ah, maaf baru baca. Tadi lagi beresin draft untuk kerjasama klien besok. Gak apa kan?”
Itu mungkin lebih manis daripada rentetan di timeline:
“… sebel cuman delivered aja tapi gak di read-read” 10 minutes ago
“kamu dimana sih kok gak bales-bales?“-with Entahlahsiapa 5 minutes ago
“Aduh hp kamu rusak ya”-with Entahlahsiapa 1 minutes ago

Nikmati setiap detik ketika kamu sendiri, ketika kamu bersama orang lain, ketika luang, ketika sibuk, ketika sedih, ketika rapuh, ketika marah… semuanya.
Karena kisah-kisah itu yang bakal jadi cerita gurih layaknya gurame asam-manis yang ikannya digoreng kriuk dan akan dinikmati oleh kita dan orang-orang yang antusias mendengar cerita kita kelak.
Oh… I know, saya juga sempat alay, jangan sok suci ente, Mon! Iya… iya… tapi boleh dong saya tobat dan memilih jalan versi saya sendiri 🙂

Tahukah kalian? karena tidak ada yang bisa mendikte kebagiaan kalian. Kalian yang menentukan definisi bahagia kalian sendiri.

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Once upon a time between two planet
Earth: Do you know,Mars… I think if I really really really like someone I’ll never need anything else because I have someone to be spamed until their cellphone get hang and blank. Not that crazy, but I mean why should spread satelites all around if then it just for complaining?

Mars: ahahahaha… really? But you know what? The most important thing is nothing can define happiness, except yourself. Unfortunately, human usually define their happiness to other people happiness. And eh! If there is no satelite, Earth I am sure we can’t communicate then :p Just enjoy it.
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